A Pep Talk On Rejection From A Holistic Dating Coach in Austin Texas

Everyone gets rejected. In dating, on the apps, in person, while searching for a job, going for a loan, etc.

The key is in how to move through rejection so that it does not derail you. How do you do that?

Process the rejection. Journal it out. Feel the emotions that comes with the rejection.
Do not take it personally. There are so many reasons why this rejection occurred, some within your control and some without your control. In dating for instance, do not take the rejection personally. It has nothing to do with your self-worth, even if you think it does. It does not mean that you’ll never meet someone that you like. It does not mean that your person is not out there. Do whatever it takes to remind you of this when faced with rejection.
Truly believe that the rejection is working out in your favor. It’s the universe’s way of carving out something that is a better fit for you, even though you can’t see that right now. This is where you have to trust in the process and believe that there is something more amazing for you in the world. Hold yourself through the rejection and find ways to care for yourself during this tender time.

At the core, a rejection means that you tried. And that you cared. These are the things that will set you up in life. Pat yourself on the back for trying, and for pursuing what you want. Isn’t that such a brave and courageous act? “Fortune favors the bold”