Creating Better Dating Profiles: Number One Tip from a Holistic Dating Coach in Austin Texas
Creating Better Dating Profiles: Number One Tip from a Holistic Dating Coach in Austin Texas
The dating apps can be a great tool in your dating journey… if you use them intentionally. When engaging with the apps, it can be more effective/enjoyable if you’re swiping from a place of good energy. If you notice yourself angry swiping for example, it’s time to put the app down. Leave it alone and come back when you’re in a better energetic state.
Energy is super important with everything in life, including time invested on the dating apps. My number one tip for creating a profile that will attract your ideal matches is to: spend some time creating a profile that speaks to you and to the type of person you want to attract.
For instance, if you’re looking for someone thoughtful, include thoughtful responses in your profile. If you’re looking to find your person, say that on your profile. If you’re looking for someone who is interesting, witty, etc - how can you show that on your profile? Likes attract likes and you’ll start to notice that people on your wavelength will be matching with you.
Think about it. How many times have you swiped left on someone who had boring, one-word responses? Probably every single time. But when you come across someone who seems interesting, has a quirky story or values the things you value, you’re more drawn to that person.
Spend some time creating your profile, be intentional with who you want to attract (the qualities that you like) and try to showcase that in your own profile. It takes a little bit of work and effort, but the payoff is well worth it! (Think about cover letters and how effective they are when you actually spend some time on it!) Happy swiping!